Learn to say no!

 

                              saying-no

” WE HAVE LIMITS TO OUR INTERESTS, ABILITIES AND CAPACITIES , AFTER ALL WE ARE HUMAN . SOMETIME ITS BETTER NOT TO OVERTHINK AND PERFORM WITH YOUR HEART 


Is it necessary to being admired by everyone , every time ? NO! It’s a normal human tendency to criticize everyone and sneak at their back. So how do we expect to be adored by everyone if we know that people perceive things differently and are bound to reprehend in any affirmative situations.So if our endeavors are not  given appreciation aftermath of restrained efforts, should we really be obliged to work for or keep an agreement for mere reason of keeping up relations.

Sometimes its OK not to keep acquiescing and not to be available every time and everywhere,as it’s our life,we have command over it,we can execute it in our way .we need not to give record of our life to everyone by pretending always-in-agreement just because we don’t want people to think of us as rude, wherein actually we were just keeping our opinions.Adhering to our point don’t make you look curt all the time,it can also  advantage you by letting people know your point and it may add to you by giving an image of not to be underestimated or taken granted for.

If you keep on complying to the requests you are not comfortable with, people may take you easy and can take advantage of you.Also once you agreed, you would feel being brusque the next time you refrain.So be determined and try and carry a presentable attitude of how you feel from inside .you need not to manipulate your feelings for some time of recognition. So just be the real you as fabrication wears of with time.So go enjoy.Take fresh air.And next time when you think about saying NO, don’t think of consequences.

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